My second round of questions during the screening process focuses on getting a real feeling for the person. There are many types of sugar daddies but I am only interested in a selective group that also wants to establish a level of intimacy , develop trust and friendship to some degree and one who also needs to have chemistry on both sides. My questions are designed to focus on this group, I would like to point out that as you determine what type of sugar arrangement you seek, your questions should help you to determine if this Pot is looking for the same type of arrangement as you. For example I do not meet P4P types as I am not interested in this type of arrangement and if I quickly determine this, I save time and energy in the search process.
Questions:
Is there something that stood out about me that brought you to the decision to contact me? ( if the answer is picture and nothing more.. I give it some thought)
What qualities do you search for in real life with a female companion and how do you feel it has changed if any in your search for a SB?
Can you describe your ideal SB and what your vision of a good sugar arrangement might be? ( I look for number of meets here, if he simply just list sexual stuff or is looking for substance as well)
How do you feel people who know you well would describe you? ( I added this question recently and was surprised at the answers I have gotten from the pompous to the very humble and honest answers. This is a great way to learn more ..just watch out for I statements like I am this and I am that.. as we are not asking him for his opinion about himself but instead his opinion of how he thinks others perceive him.)
Which of the following statements describes you? Easy to get along with< Laid Back< Semi Controlling, Controlling, Dominant, Submissive, a tad difficult?
What type of sugar daddy would you describe yourself as? Gifting, allowance, P4P, Travel, combination or other and please explain.
In each round of questions I pay attention to certain clues and facts:
Have they asked me questions in return? I have learned that when I am asked no questions at all or only ones that are all sexually oriented that they are usually not as selective as I am.. not interested in chemistry or mutual connection and just want to get laid.
Often a pot will go poof on second set of questions.. this is fine by me as I do not want to waste a lot of time meeting the wrong ones.. and focus on the ones of quality .
Once I have reviewed all the answers I ask if there is anything they would like to know about me that we have not discussed and suggest we do this through a phone call. I have added skype calls when I feel I may be harboring doubts about a pot's sincerity. However, I do not do in any form or manner phone sex.. online cam sex.. I am not looking to be someones call girl or escort.. and often find this brings up that suggestion.. so use caution. It does give us the opportunity to see how someone looks in real time.
After a couple phone conversations I move on or suggest a meet if he has not. For me the search is about finding the one who you can be comfortable with for an arrangement.. and though it may sound harsh.. it is important to have some common ground and chemistry is essential.
What questions do you ask and how detailed do you like the answers to be? I have on occasion asked what he felt a productive first and second meet should be like? Even drawing a Pot out to paint a picture of what, where, etc. and this often has brought me to the decision to not waste time meeting.. especially when they suggest things like.. after dinner maybe we can sit in my car and do a little heavy petting....NEXT..lol...
Coming The Final Part of my screening process and paying attention to the clues we do not always see.
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